Why is it that despite women reaching certain levels of success they are still aching for more? How can we redefine success for women so they can stay true to themselves?

Redefining the Rules

After working with over 450 women I have discovered a pattern. Redefining success for high achieving women looks less like looking outwards, and instead following the beat of their own drum.

The reality is that when we become fixated on achieving results and being more productive to obtain more we start to disconnect from our true essence.

We move further away from our desires and then our reality looks vastly different. We begin to wonder- when did the disconnection begin? What was the pivotal point in our life when we moved further away from ourselves?

In a world of external influences including social media, highlight reels and what “success” should actually look like, this is disconnecting women from who they truly are.

It creates a separation from their true gifts and focuses on what can be “monetised” vs what our soul truly desires to create.

Cue, mid life crisis. Possibly, considering an Eat Pray Love adventure. Pack your bags and head to Europe! Or maybe not, there is another way. Yet, if your soul craves adventure, by all means head on a journey!

The Identity Shift

There is another way which enables you to connect with the woman at the core of who you are. Where your business and life is built from a place of knowing and trust, rather than having your identity tied to your work.

Instead of striving, aim for remembering. Remembering our values, our essence, what is important in this life to us.

Through this process you begin to build the identity of the woman who leads herself first. A woman grounded in her conviction and self leadership.

Where you begin to notice where you are betraying yourself and not making space for the things you very well desire. Being grounded in certainty is the foundation to your reinvention.

Conviction breeds Clarity

Clarity starts to build. You begin to discover how you want to spend your time outside of your business. Whether that is doing creative projects and everything in between.

Your decisions begin to honour your time, energy and space. Instead of feeling scattered in your decision making, you become clear and confident on the steps you need to take.

You become deeply connected to your work when you are connected to yourself. While still working towards the mission deeply rooted within you.

When we are able to cultivate an identity outside of our work, we can start taking a birds eye view and be objective about the decisions we make.

And that feeling of.. more? The longing in our soul?

When we follow this nudge, we no longer feel our worth is tied to how our business, career or brand is performing. And we no longer externalise our wellness to how much we are producing inside of our business. Instead we operate from a place of flow, where all of us becomes connected.

Tasks get done seamlessly, there is no feel of rushing and you begin to embody certainty. You no longer operate from scarcity.

Your business and life will never be the same again when you carve out space for creative and passion projects, create segments of time to work on legacy projects and make space dedicated to reconnecting to you and the work you are here to do and who you are beyond your work.

If you desire to lean into a more intentional way of living and working under my mentorship, you can explore an Intensive with me.